Does it ever feel like there is always something getting in the way of your success or holding you back from getting what you want out of life?
It often feels this way to me.
I can go along for months gaining momentum with each opportunity that comes up only to find that one day I wake up to a brick wall where there was no brick wall before!
I often wondered why this happens.
Well, maybe "wondered" isn't the right term. I've always known why this happens, I CHOOSE to ignore it, hoping it will go away!
Does this sound familiar?
For example, the one area of my life that could use a boost is my relationship with my business.
I can pinpoint exact moments when I sabotage this relationship and to be honest I am no longer disappointed when things don't go exactly as I had originally planned because...well....I know I'm sabotaging it.
So today someone asked me the question "in the deepest part of yourself why are you sabotaging your relationship with your business?"
My answer shocked the heck out of me.
I replied "I'm afraid of becoming successful because then I may not have the time to spend with my family the way I want to spend it".
I equate "success" with working like a dog 24/7 because that is all I've known, it's what I was taught. I have not fully integrated the vision of success being whatever the hell I WANT it to be. And the reality is it would look like having oodles of time to spend with my family!
The other thought I have associated with success is "who do you think you are, what have you possibly done to deserve success?"
The moment I spoke the words it felt utterly ridiculous. Who is afraid of success? What a stupid fear? I'm so ashamed that I've had this fear and it's been holding me back...
But wait a minute....
In the moment I voiced that fear. In the moment I finally acknowledged it's existence instead of sweeping it under the rug I felt a shift in my perception.
I had been holding myself back through indulging this fear. It doesn't have anything to do with anyone but me!
I began to notice my whole body start to feel heavy, a calm and peaceful relaxed heaviness came over me and I could feel that the acknowledgement had somewhat released the grip that this fear had on me.
To me fears indicate a missing piece to a puzzle. It's frustrating to have missing pieces to a puzzle, isn't it? If we dig deeper into our fears we begin to uncover those missing pieces and bit by bit we can put the puzzle together and in doing so we make ourselves whole once again.
What is your biggest fear when it comes to meeting your full life potential?
Are you ignoring this fear hoping it will go away?
What is it going to take for you to release this fear and take the next step toward living an inspired life?